Matryoshkas & My Matrilineal Matriarch

Have you ever seen a set of wooden dolls, each one of decreasing size placed inside another? These nesting dolls are called matryoshkas, which means  “little matrons.”

By now, you might be asking yourself why a family historian with mostly British Isles roots is talking about Russian matryoshkas.

Well, today on Twitter, I saw a new writing prompt, #RussianDollChallenge, inquiring just how far back we genealogists have traced our matrilineal lines. This idea intrigued me, so I took a closer look at my mother’s maternal family. It turns out that on that branch, including me, there are ten generations of women whom I have documented.

My earliest known matrilineal ancestor is Mary (Wright) Soper, my 7th great-grandmother. Although I know that Mary was born circa 1725 in Staten Island, New York, I have found no details about her childhood, other than the fact that she was a Quaker whose father was Anthony Wright. (Some have asserted that Rachel Townsend was her mother; however, I have yet to find source material confirming this.)

What is known is that on 3 June 1746, Mary Wright married Joseph Soper in Barnegat, New Jersey. (At the time, Barnegat was part of Monmouth County, but it is now in Ocean County.)

Mary and Joseph established their home at Soper’s Landing, a property located on the bay midway between Barnegat and Waretown, New Jersey.

In 1747, the couple was blessed with their first child, a daughter named Mercy Rebecca Soper. (She was my 6th great-grandmother.)

In addition to Mercy, the couple had 11 more children:  Reuben (born 1749), Letitia (born circa 1751), Joseph (born circa 1754), Hezekiah (born 1761), Timothy (born 1762), Rhonda/Rhoda (born circa 1764), Wright (born 1765), Anthony (born 4 December 1768), Lucretia (born circa 1770), Sarah (born circa 1772), and Elizabeth (born 1774).

Speaking of daughter Mercy, on 1 July 1767, she married David Rulon, son of Jesse Rulon, in Stafford, Monmouth County, New Jersey.

More than a decade later, son Reuben Soper married Mary Matthis on 26 April 1779.

Around this same time, Mary (Wright) Soper’s husband Joseph and eldest son Reuben enlisted as privates in the 5th Company, Monmouth Militia, led by Capt. Reuben F. Randolph.

Because Joseph and Reuben fought for the Patriots, the Soper family was often harassed by a band of Loyalists dubbed the Pine Robbers because they hid out in the Pine Barrens of south-central New Jersey. This group, under the direction of Capt. John Bacon, was so nefarious that the Sopers frequently were forced to sleep in the nearby swamp just to stay safe.

Joseph’s profession was a boat builder. With all the troubles caused by Bacon and his men, Joseph was paranoid that there might be a traitor in their midst. So, after selling a boat he built, he divided the money into two parcels, one much larger than the other, and buried them in different spots. Sadly, his suspicions were confirmed when, later that evening, Bacon and his men raided his home. Joseph took refuge in the swamps, while Mary and their children remained behind. When the Pine Robbers threatened Mary, she led them to where the smaller of the two parcels was buried. Bacon’s men stole the money, not realizing that a much large portion remained.

Near Soper’s Landing was salt works where locals extracted salt from the bay water via evaporation.  This salt was used to preserve meat and fish and to make gun powder. Under orders, Capt. Bacon and his men destroyed the salt works.

You would think that when the war ended, the combatants would lay down their arms and go back to their normal lives. But because war had proved such a prosperous endeavor for the Pine Robbers, they were still wrecking havoc throughout the Pine Barrens region a year after Gen. Cornwallis’ surrender.

Capt. Bacon’s most reprehensible act occurred after the cease-fire, as described in the book, Smugglers’ Woods, by Arthur D. Pierce:

Monmouth County annals include a long list of Bacon’s plunderings and brutalities. His blackest moment, however, was the night of the Long Beach Massacre. On 25 October 1782, Captain Andrew Steelman of Cape May and twenty-five men on the privateer [ship] Alligator captured a British cutter from Ostend headed for St. Thomas. This vessel, apparently far off course, had run aground on Barnegat Shoals. Steelman and his men labored the whole day to unload her cargo on Long Beach. By nightfall, all hands were dead-tired and curled up among the dunes to rest. In the dead of night, Bacon and his followers sailed over from the mainland, crept up on the [men], and slew them while they slept. Captain Steelman and a number of his men were killed instantly; those who attempted to rise were hacked with bayonets; and of the twenty-five in Steelman’s crew, only five managed, somehow, to escape alive.

Tragically, one of the men murdered was Mary (Wright) Soper’s son, Reuben. Outraged by the slaughter, the locals demanded that the Pine Robbers be stopped. In response, Gov. William Livingston offered a reward of £50 for John Bacon’s capture. Months passed. Then, on 31 March 1783, Bacon was spotted on Long Beach Island, scavenging a shipwreck. A search party was sent after him. He was found at a local tavern, where he was killed.

Ten years later, Mary (Wright) Soper died. She was buried somewhere in Soper’s Landing; however, the exact location of her grave site is unknown.


So, now it is your turn.
Who is your earliest matrilineal ancestor whom you have traced?

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  4. After reading your comment, I had to find out just who Joseph Mulliner was.

    Like Bacon, he was a leader of a group of Pine Barrens outlaws. Thankfully, unlike Bacon, Mulliner never took a life. Many accounts likened him to more of a Robin Hood character than a dastardly villain.

    Although I am certain the two men knew of each other by reputation and might have met on one or more occasions, their modi operandi (M.O.) was vastly different; therefore, I would assume they never worked together.

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  5. My ancestor’s brother was Joseph Mulliner, the Pine Barrens Bandit. He was another Loyalist who stayed in New Jersey rather than flee after the war ended. I wonder if Bacon worked with him at all.

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  6. Hi Jill. Nice to meet another person with Quaker roots!

    I am so happy that I have inspired you to share your matrilineal matriarch’s story. I will be sure to check out your page.

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  7. Thank you for the inspiration: I created a page for my Maternal Haplogroup, H1. My matrilineal ancestors also include several members of the Friends Church (Quakers), mostlly from Ontario, Canada, but originally they were from Dutchess, NY, back in the early 1700s.

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  8. Thank you!

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  9. I am glad you liked it, Ann Marie. I can’t wait to read all about your earliest known matrilineal matriarch.

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  10. This was wonderful….now I am curious and must give this a go…..lol

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  11. It did, but it was well worth it. Thanks again!

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  12. Enjoyed reading it. Must have taken some serious research time!

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  13. Good luck with your matrilineal line research, Eilene. I can’t wait to read all about your earliest known maternal ancestress.

    As to my 7th great-grandmother, until I actually started putting all of the information I had gathered about her and her family, I never really knew what a remarkable story she had. 🙂

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  14. Good call. I’ve been telling more women’s stories lately, but I can’t go too far back on the matrilineal line. I know my 4th great-grandmother, but haven’t been able to verify her maiden name or her family. Time to dig into that mystery again.

    You’ve sure got a great story here!

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  15. Glad to hear that I am not the only one inspired to tell our female relatives’ stories. I can’t wait to read about your matrilineal matriarch, Jamie!

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  16. I love this idea–thank you for sharing! I’ll have to write a post in response–one of my “genealogy resolutions” is to share the stories of the women in my family tree more (their paper trail isn’t as complete, and their stories are easily overlooked). This is the perfect opportunity!

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